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A Free Gift For You {Plus Some Great Toy Ideas}


Todays post is going to be a little newsy, and there is a little surprise for you at the end. :)

I am finishing up my Christmas shopping this week. I want to be shopping-free by the time Rebekah comes home. I wish I could link to some of the great things I have found for my girls, but they read this blog and that would spoil all of their surprises!!

Two of my sisters and I took my mom out for her birthday on Monday night and then went Christmas shopping.(My sister Amy was there in spirit, although she lives in MO. We’ll do it again, Amy. :) )

It is always so fun to go out with the girls! We went to the Rustic Kitchen at Derby Street Shops in Hingham, and let me tell you, their food is sooo good. I have been thinking about my meal and planning a way to go back. :)

I have also been getting ready for our annual Doll’s Christmas Tea Party.  I finished up my invitations. Here is the Tasha Tudor inspired watercolor border I painted for the invitation. I inserted the words in the sky. Feel free to use it for your own personal use. 

 

 

If you are like me, you are thinking about timeless gifts for your kids this year. The last thing any parent wants is to sink money into toys that a child doesn’t play with long-term. I decided to share with you the toys that our children enjoyed the most. Many of these sets are now packed away incase I have grandchildren someday.

Over the years I have learned that owning fewer toys, but higher quality pieces, has worked well for our home educating family. When kids are overrun with toys that only have one purpose, their natural creativity is stifled.

I purposefully chose open ended toys for my kiddos. These toys require the child to use their imagination, and can also be used in several play scenarios. Most of them are simple, without electrical sounds or capabilities. Toys today have the ability to do nearly everything from walking, talking, eating and interacting. I have found that the more the toy can do, the less the child has to do.  Sometimes the latest, greatest electro-gadget inadvertently limits the imagination of the child.

Open ended toys are simple and encourage the child to create their own fun. Unfortunately, sometimes these are more expensive, but in the long run, they last through several children and the amount of play you get out of them makes it worthwhile.

“Children need the freedom and time to play. Play is not a luxury. Play is necessity.” Kay Jamison 

Here are some of our favorites: {If you click on the picture, it will take you to Amazon}
Building Toys

Lego Duplo Blocks for Toddlers

Lego Starter Set

Base Board for Lego Building. Kids love to make towns on these things. :)

This book is for older kids, but it allows them to make all kinds of cool cars and   gadgets with Legos they already own.

 

 

Dress Up

I can’t say enough about Play Silks. I bit the bullet and bought them after a friend of mine raved about them. They were used for years! They became aprons, wings, head covering, belts, etc. Very open ended, lightweight and versatile.

Bonnets Galore. What can I say? My kids love Little House on the Prairie like their mother. :)

“Miss Polly had a dolly who was sick, sick, sick, So she called to the doctor to come quick, quick, quick…” My kids played with this Haba set forever. They seemed obsessed with giving each other shots. Hmm…

 

Buy by the Piece Sets:

I honestly can’t say enough good things about Playmobil. Next to Legos, this was the indoor toy they used non-stop. The Playmobil 1-2-3 Line is for babies through age three and is a lovely way to introduce your child to this line.  It is a little expensive, but we bought one little pieces here and there and we have amassed an enormous collection today. (My youngest, Hope, is getting the Playmobil RV for Christmas. Shh…don’t tell!) I can’t even count how many days my living room was wall to wall Playmobil towns. In the winter, I would read aloud to my kids while they set up their Playmobil towns.

Toddler Train Set

First Doll House

Western Line


Hope is getting the RV this year. My sister and her husband just bought a real RV and my kids love sleeping over in it. I know Hope will love this toy! :)

 Busy Hands

Lauri puzzles were a favorite in our home. My kids used these puzzles (especially the kids jumping one below) until the arms and legs of these poor vinyl children fell off. :)




If you can get your hands on the old “Brio Mec” wooden building sets that are no longer being made, I would highly recommend those as well. They are great for boys who love to build. They come with a hammer, screwdriver, wooden planks and an crazy amount of nails and screws. It is little boy heaven.
I would check ebay or Amazon for used sets.
Our kids also loved the Brio Waterway sets, but I don’t believe they make them anymore. Again, this simple toy provided hours of fun as the kids manipulated the boats voyage using a current.

AND, I have a free gift for you! :)

I painted these little Tasha Tudor inspired Christmas tags, that you are free to print and use for your own Christmas wrapping. I would print them on card-stock and attach them to a pretty rectangle of deep red or green card-stock. They would also be sweet for digital scrap booking. Enjoy! {and let me know how you use them by providing a link back if you blog. Can’t wait to see how creative YOU are.} I wish I had these done before my book was completed!

Winter Fun

Snow Day!

 

Silent Night

Click on each image to enlarge and to view the better quality jpg. ENJOY!!

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Forgetting Christ At Christmas

I am embarrassed to admit that it is easy for me to forget Christ during the Christmas season.

It is easier to focus on my to-do list than on my Savior. There are presents to be bought and wrapped, Christmas cards to be addressed and mailed, baking and decorating, parties and activities.

And worse, sometimes I know my focus is out of balance and I still desire the meaningless and trivial. My flesh wants “happy” when I know God’s Spirit is leading me toward “holy.”

The thought comes to my mind…

If Satan can’t make me bad, he’ll make me busy.

Busyness means that my mind never “lands”–it just flits from event to event, from one responsibility to the next. When I have free time, I create things to do. I resist sitting still. I mask the emptiness with fun songs about silver bells and a white Christmas.

Why? Could it be that I am actually avoiding Christ? That I am looking for satisfaction in the lights, merriment and wonder of a season, rather than in the person of my Savior, Jesus Christ?

If you are forgetting about Jesus this Christmas, the season might seem hollow and empty.

This quote from John Piper sums it up:

“If you don’t feel strong desires for the manifestation for the glory of God, it is not because you have drunk deeply and are satisfied.

It is because you have nibbled so long at the table of the world. Your soul is stuffed with small things, and there is no room for the great.”

(A Hunger for God)

If I do nothing else this season, I want to make sure that I:

1. Am in God’s word every day, especially when I am busy. (And I want to teach my children about Jesus every days as well.) And not just in God’s Word, but meditating and communing with God throughout my day. Conversing with Him. Celebrating for his glory.

Celebrating Christmas while forgetting the Savior is counter-productive and meaningless.

2. Desire the Giver more than the gifts that He graciously gives. God is good, and gives good gifts, but He wants me to love Him more than I love the gifts.

3. Guard my mind and be careful what I “ponder.”

Scripture teaches that “Mary kept all these things and pondered them in her heart.” What I think about and meditate on exposes/directs my desires. What I spend my time doing exposes what I value. I tend to put time and effort into what’s important to me. I want to fill my mind with the truth of God’s Word.

So, pray for me, would you? That I would enjoy the season, and all the fun and good gifts that God gives, but that I would treasure Jesus Christ and make knowing Him the goal of this season.

Merry Christmas, Meager Budget Ebook Giveaway

UPDATE: The giveaway is over, but you can snag your own copy here on SALE for just $3.99 right now!

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Merry Christmas, Meager Budget Giveaway!

To celebrate the launch of our new ebook, Beth and I are giving away FIVE copies in 12 hours!

 

This book is written for tired mothers everywhere. Christmas can be overwhelming and can become a test of stamina instead of the joyous holiday it was meant to be. This book covers:

  • Limit your spending during the holiday season.
  • Saying “NO” to many good, fun activities so you can enjoy time making memories with your kids.
  • Plan your calendar so you don’t run yourself ragged.
  • Decorate your home on a dime.
  • Create thoughtful gifts on a limited budget.
  • Whip up some delicious recipes in the kitchen.
  • Create fun memories for your kids without breaking the bank.
Purchasing info:
This is in a pdf. format, so you can either read it on your computer, or on a mobile device or e-reader.
117 pages
$3.99

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Enter to win a copy of “Merry Christmas, Meager Budget” here. Ends tonight at 12pm!
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Merry Christmas, Meager Budget is Now Available!

I am SO excited to tell you about our brand new ebook,

Merry Christmas, Meager Budget

 

Let’s face it, this economy is tough and everyone is feeling the pinch. My sister Beth and I wrote this book to give you tips, tutorials and plain old Yankee know-how to help you:

  • Limit your spending during the holiday season.
  • Plan your calendar so you don’t run yourself ragged.
  • Decorate your home on a dime.
  • Create thoughtful gifts on a limited budget.
  • Whip up some delicious recipes in the kitchen.
  • Create fun memories for your kids without breaking the bank.
So, if just the thought Christmas tires you or you feel it has become more a test of endurance than the joyous holiday it was meant to be, you might consider finding some inspiration in this book.
Chapters Include:
  1. Rejecting Commercialism and Embracing What’s Important
  2. Four Sisters and What We Love
  3. Making Memories Without Breaking The Bank
  4. Rethinking Christmas Goals
  5. Old-Fashioned, Farmhouse Inspired Crafts
  6. Holiday Fun for the Frugal Family
  7. Twenty-six Boredom Busters for Little Ones
  8. Cozy Up Your Home For Christmas
  9. Merry Gifts to Make {$10 or less}
  10. Gifts for Children
  11. Your Favorite Frugal Ideas
  12. Favorite Family Recipes
  13. Advent Verses For Children
  14. Free Printable Christmas Tags and Labels
This is in a pdf. format, so you can either read it on your computer, or on a mobile device or e-reader.
117 pages
$3.99

Add to Cart

What I’m up to lately.

So, I’m writing an e-book. Ahem.

It is nearly done, just a few more tweaks. You’ll hear more about that in a few days. But for now, think Christmas on a dime, and dealing with a tough economy during the holidays, M-kay?

And today I am collecting donations for the victims of Hurricane Sandy. If you are in the area and can bring diapers, new underwear, socks or toiletries, gently used clothes, warm coats…whatever…to our house, we have a friend who’ll be taking care of delivering the goods to NY and NJ. We need them by tomorrow (Tuesday). And if you stop in, don’t mind the mess; things are a little chaotic right now.

But, I am learning to give thanks for the messes. It is all good.

Oh, and don’t forget to vote tomorrow. AS IF you guys would! ;)

Peter shared this on Facebook and it was a good look at why conservatism works. We can’t afford to be on the same collision course for four more years. We definitely need a change! Exercise your right to vote. You know I have strong opinions on this one. :)

More on the book later, but right now, we have a country to save. :)

All I Want for Christmas!!

We are all so excited around here. And here’s why. (See pic below. :) )

YUP. My oldest will be home in a few short hours for Christmas. SQUEEEE!!!

I have a big pot of beef soup simmering on the stove, along with a nice heavy loaf of bread. Beef soup is her favorite. :)

I got to set the table for SEVEN again tonight. Not six. SEVEN!

Tonight, all my kids will be under one roof!

And I am going to enjoy every minute of it!

Hug your little ones, moms! They grow soooooo fast!!

Have a great weekend!!

Stressed? Rest.

Don’t you sometimes feel as though the hurry and scurry of the Christmas season leaves you depleted? Know what? It is not even December and I am already feeling anxiety to get it all done.

It all starts Thanksgiving night. Can we not even have just one day to focus on God’s goodness? No, we are encouraged to quick– wash those dishes, pack up that turkey and get out and get spending! Christmas is upon us!!  I think I feel an ulcer.

I want to be a fun mom at Christmas. I want to be a great wife and hostess. I want to send heartfelt cards with handwritten  messages. I long to uphold family traditions. But all of these things-good things- must be secondary to a heart seeks God and longs to know Him.  When we are dry and empty during the holidays, chances are we have been so busy icing cookies and stringing lights that we have neglected our relationship with the Lord.

If you are dry spiritually, stressed financially, anxious about tomorrow (or December 25th!) might I suggest that you sit with the One who can help you? Grab your Bible, and a mug of tea and feed your soul!

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.  Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.  For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” – Matt. 11:28-30

Meditate. Ponder. Be still and know that you have a God who loves you and cares about the in’s and out’s of your life, but who wants more for you than what is on the surface. He wants you to know Him. And that takes time.

Problem is, we have no time during the Christmas season. So we have to schedule it and guard it, so that it isn’t gobbled up with other things.  We need to be Word- filled so that we can properly represent Christ and love others well.

Who cares if your home looks ”Martha Stewart” worthy,  if you’re miserable to the people who live there in the process? Know what I am saying? Mkay then! :)

I like Elizabeth George’s advice for making decisions:

“We must say no not only to things which are  wrong and sinful, but to things pleasant, profitable, and good which would hinder and clog our grand duties and chief work.”( A Woman After God’s Own Heart, pg. 32.)

There is nothing wrong with having a holly, jolly Christmas. But let’s not neglect what is most important.

“But Mary kept all these things, and pondered them in her heart.”

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Our Favorite Christmas Story Books

We have always read aloud to our kids. It is one of my favorite homeschool memories–sitting on the couch, wrapped in blankets and reading aloud. Sometimes the kids would play legos quietly while I read. Sometimes they used Stockmar modeling beeswax to keep their hands busy and mouths quiet. :) You will never regret the time you spent snuggling and reading to your little ones.  So grab a cup of tea and your babes, and enjoy some of these titles! These are some of our fav’s–not only do we love the stories, but we enjoyed the illustrations.

1. The Christmas Carol- We used abridged versions when they were young, but love the unabridged verson now that they are older.

2. The Christmas Miracle of Jonathan Toomey- This is the story of a grouchy woodcarver whose hard heart is softened by the company and kindness of a widow and her young son as he carves out a nativity scene for them.

3. The Christmas Barn- Set in the 1930′s, and full of family love. When a tree falls on the house of a poor Appalachian area family, they make their barn a temporary home and celebrate Christmas using the few resources they have. Heartwarming tale of resourcefulness and contentment.

4. Keeping Holiday- This book is an allegory about two children who go to the city of “Holiday” only to realize that it is somehow shallow. Although they are drawn to the shopping, lights, sounds and smells of Holiday, they longed for something more. They begin searching for the founder of  Holiday, but are told many times along their journey “You can’t find theFounder; he finds you. He’s not just the Founder, he’s the Finder, too!” This is the story of their journey.

5. Christmas In The Big Woods.  I don’t know which I like better: the story or the illustrations.

What are your favorite Chrismas reads? Do share in the comments!

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My Christmas Survival Strategy

The Christmas season is upon us! Did you go out shopping early this morning? I stayed in and avoided the stores, but did some online planning. I will do most of my shopping from my living room this year. :)

Speaking of shopping, are you wondering how you can get it all done while staying in budget this year? Me too. I am a gift giver by nature and want to be as generous as our budget will allow. I want to be a blessing to others, but also want to be respectful of my husbands budget and not overburden him.

So, here is my plan of attack. My goal is to bless others while still being a  blessing to my husband this Christmas.

1. Prioritize my  list. I can’t buy for everyone, although I’d like to.  So I have to narrow it down somehow. Kids, hubby, parents and sisters always make the list. :)

2. Divide and Conquer–your money, that is. Consider using an envelope system with the allotted amount per person in a single envelope. When it is gone, it is gone. If you are purchasing online, stick closely to your budget to avoid maxing out your credit card. :) Remember to search for online coupons…you can usually find them for every store!

3. Make handmade gifts or treats. Each year I make handmade ornaments, candy, chocolate covered pretzels, etc…and make up gift bags for those I  still want to give something special, but cannot afford to buy for.  Sometimes I sew, make candles, paint, etc…Check Pinterest for inspiration galore!

4. Refuse to give in to consumerism. Advertisers spend big money trying to lure you into buying extras…decide what your needs are and stick to that.  “Beware of coveteousness.” Remember that Christmas is not all about material goods. Celebrate with simplicity.

5. Save money by decorating with fresh greens. If you live in the country, snip greens from an oblidging evergreen tree, and fill a basket with berries and a pretty ribbon. Check the LL Bean catalog for greenery idea inspiration, or do a google image search. By filling a basket with fresh floral foam, and then adding your greens, you can make a beautiful, inexpensive, great smelling centerpiece for pennies.

What ideas do you have for celebrating within your budget? Please share with all of us in the comments! We could all use the help!! :)

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At the Sea-Side

All will be quiet here as I will be taking the week off to spend time with our family.  Each year, we have a week long family reunion and we always look forward to this break.  Although the highlight is just being together since my sister Amy lives all the way in Missouri, we also enjoy all 14 kids being together,  big breakfasts and coffee time, walking on the beach early in the morning as the sun is coming up, shopping for school clothes at the outlets, swimming, skim boarding, exploring and visiting friends from college. So, think of me sitting in the warm ocean breeze, watching my kiddos swim and explore while I finish up my latest book and catch up with my three sisters. :)

This is one of our favorite childhood poems of all time, and my kids recite is often at the beach:

At the Sea-Side

By:  Robert Louis Stevenson

When I was down beside the sea

A wooden spade they gave to me
   To dig the sandy shore.
My holes were empty like a cup.
In every hole the sea came up
   Till it could come no more.